What Christian Guys really think!!!

A guy wants to have a “girlfriend” in Junior High and High School just to be a companion. I put that in parenthesis because in these years that is what a girl is to a guy: just a companion/girlfriend. They are not thinking about the future just for the time. They also will pick out a girl just to fit in with the “IN” crowd because that is the way that the “world” lives by and tells them to go by.
In College there usually begins a change, a guy becomes a Man and begins to see things differently because he is looking for a wife that he can spend the rest of his life with. A Godly man will look for a girl that has evidence of Growth in her spiritual walk. This is seen by the fruit of her labor. He will also look for someone that is about pleasing God and not about pleasing the world. He looks for the one that God has brought into his life for the rest of his life, and not just for the season. This is about Guys that have a relationship with Christ. The ones that do not have a relationship with Christ you STAY AWAY from. God has someone picked out especially for you and you need to take the time to seek HIS face and trust that in HIS timing it will be revealed to you.

Some scripture for you to think on!

Romans 12:4 “ And do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.”

Proverbs 18:22 “He who finds a wife finds a good thing And obtains favor from the Lord.”

Proverbs 31:10 "Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies."

Let us know your thoughts, questions, comments!

IN CHRIST
Josh Caines
FBC Ludowici, Youth Pastor